Completion of Study Life

No more books!
No more assignment!
No more lecture!
I officially ended as a student in schooling.
I had completed my degree in time.
Now, I will continue my life as a freshman in workplace.

拼 = 赢

偶然想起一首福建歌曲, "爱拼才会赢".
歌词里头一句: "三分天注定, 七分靠打拼， 要拼才会赢".
它的涵义是, 要成功绝大部分都是靠个人努力, 运气则是其次.

这句歌词很对味.
为什么我那么说? 因为我认同.
想要达到成功, 必是靠努力和奋斗.
运气嘛, 则是时机问题.
每次遭遇失败的人惯例的借口, "哎呀, 都是我运气背, 明明我都努力了, 还是不成功."
对于这样的说辞, 我个人不接受.

抚心自问, 你真的努力了吗?
你真的有把全部心力放上去吗?
100%的effort? 就算没有, 应该有90%, 或者85%?
我看也没有吧...
请睁大眼睛看清楚, 别再骗自己了.
这样的人, 只是在为自己所造成的失败找借口, 让自己的心觉得好受一点.

别人都会觉得我说话很犀利, 不留情面, 自大, 不体谅...
可是这就是我, 总好过假惺惺.
对我来说, 运气, 是加持品的同时也是消耗品.
因为运气也和金钱一样, 如不多加管理与运用, 不论一个人的运气多好, 总有撞墙碰得一鼻子灰的时候.
不是每次好运气的大门都会随时为你打开.
所以, 请在做任何一件事时都要努力, 以达到理想的目标.
别再找借口包庇自己的惰性.

心里的痛, 谁懂?
找不到人说出来, 就算说出来也无济于事, 谁可以懂? 谁可以理解?
我希望我不曾待在这个地方, 不曾遇见那样的事, 就不会发生这样的事, 就不会那么的痛.
痛进心扉, 痛进骨里...
恨不得把自己像捏蚂蚁那般捏死就算了, 为何伤及无辜?
活得像个废材, loser, 贱货...
几希望跌倒撞到头, 把脑袋里的记忆全跌光, 一干二净. 丢了那些记忆, 那也不会觉的那么辛苦.
记忆, 好痛苦.
人在做, 天在看. 上天让我活着受罪, 在惩罚我犯下的错.
如果有如果, 我希望没有我.

好佩服她的勇气和毅力... ❤

❤2/3/2014❤

Today is a special n unforgettable day...
U give me a huge surprise that I couldn't imagine ever in my whole life...
U r such a sweet person...

U never gave me any flowers or any romantic stuffs since the 3 years we been together...
I know u r not the romantic type of person...
But u always give me what's the best n care of me...

I m really, super, hyper n extremely happy that I couldn't describe at the moment...
Everytime I recall back the day my heart is still so sweet...
U makes me falling in love with u again!!!

耳听爱情

你曾说过, 男女朋友还是有选择的权利的...

当时我很错愕, 同时也让我了解你的想法...

口头上的任何誓言, 也只是说说而已, 听过了也就算了...

毕竟话从口出, 没有证实...

唯有真实, 文件上留下你我的签名, 那才是现实...

我也过了耳听爱情的年纪...

女人青春有限, 与其乾等, 不如自己去找寻...

Now the case is open wide...
Finally I know the humanity of u...
What can I did now is oni wishing u good luck in future...
Don't worry I won't curse u, talk bad behind u or take revenge on u...
That juz make me looks ugly n dirt my hands, or shows how care from me towards ur action...
Everything is becoming numb, normal n no feeling...
Ur problem are non of my business, I won't care any shit about u...
Hope u can know the consequences of ur action, but I doubt u will never realize...
Because such a selfish person like u won't admits your action, u will juz only finding excuses for yourself even though u know the truth from deeper heart...
Acting like a weaker or victim makes u feel better n innocent because u want to look like so called a GOOD PERSON in front of people.
For me, tat called FAKER / BEST ACTOR...